PostSecret with no comment for a change
posted by HappyTheClam @ 4:10 PM
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At 12:32 AM ,
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At 12:33 AM ,
Anonymous said...
Hi,
I don't know you but I know what it feels like to be molested, (physically and sexually abused). As a mother you pray everyday that something never hurt you children. The anger goes away and you start feeling sorry for the person who did all these disgusting wrong things to you, there is time to make peace about things you can never change in life, no body can take away the shame or the fact that it made you feel dirty or cheap or even used, you feel like a nobody for a very long time in life, and then comes the realization that it’s not you that did the wrong, only then can you carry on in life/
The guy I'm married to is a real ladies man, always polite toward others, I’m separated from him in all aspects, due to the fact that I was never good enough for him according to his family but always had to put up with all the wrongs in his family, divorces, slander, fraud, theft you name it was there. His niece has for such a long time trying to break us up, slandering about me to who ever had an ear to listen, yet she's not an good example to anybody, she committed fraud, stole my property while renting a house from my husband and I, did not even pay the rent, put somebody else in my house and still expected my husband to lie on her behalf, When confronting my husband about this, he then only realized that his actions where wrong, But the best is still that this niece of him has tried to set him up with somebody from time to time, and the best part she’s the one who had affairs and trying to bring my husband down to her standards. I would have walked through fire for him but his actions where just one to much, look I still love my husband a lot but I just want some piece for a while, I have not yet filed for divorce, hoping that he'll realize that you can not have your family in your marriage. Every time I see him I still want to tell him that I love him, still want to wake up with him in the morning, still want him as part of my life, but the realization that when I needed my husband he always where so busy sorting out other people troubles that he never had time to sort out his marriage problems and in a way I think that the time has come for his sister divorced twice and well as her daughter divorced twice that they need to realize that they are grown women, its their marriages that went sour and that the little brother and uncle has his own marriage to worry about?
A few things I've learned in life it to never get involved with any family dealings ever again, do everything the right way, the fact that I where molested have learned me to never let it show and I will never want anybody to feel sorry for me, just for the reason that it's not everybody that want to cause me harm, sometimes the best people pay the highest price, and they are the innocent party, Don’t cause other people harm and allow people to just be happy.
To all the married men out there: Remember who gave you the most wonderful gift in life: your children: Who is always there when things go wrong, who’s taking care of you when you are sick and who’s gonna take care of you the day you are not beautiful but old and full or wrinkles, but most of all who trust you and love you,
Just another wife
At 4:06 PM ,
HappyTheClam said...
Hi there,
In my case I've been lucky so far. The guy who did it to me died of prostate cancer. I think that was pretty appropriate.
Justice comes around eventually, maybe not when we want it to, but when it does hit, it's normally a double hit.
I'd just like to know what is it that keeps you with your husband? How long have you been married? I'm no agony aunt, but I can relate to what you're saying. . .
Hang in there.
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