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Today is Friday. I should be happy, right? I'm not. I have this NEED to not be at home this weekend. Methinks that all the stress of a pending maintenance court case and possibly due to the fact that I am very uncertain of what to expect. On the brighter side - only a month's worth of worrying - court case is in July.

As for the little people, they are blissfully unaware of the turmoil in Mommy. Till the hearing is done with, they can't go to Granny, last time they did go they came back with all sorts of reprimands: Mom, why are you taking daddy to court? He does pay you every month! Sure he does - that's why I can't afford to get you new school shoes!

I don't do the mud sling thing, but obviously I am alone on that one, if I have to hear that I suck as a mom one more time....

Now he wants to sue me for custody. Right. Kids have been in my sole custody since the divorce in 99 when they were 3, they are 10 and now suddenly I'm an unfit parent.

Dickhead!! I remember why I divorced you, you are an arrogant prick and you and your live in girlie think that I want your money. I DON'T need your money - YOUR KIDS DO!

Can someone please explain to me what the fuck he is thinking:

He and his chick have 2 kids, one 5 and one 6 months. She is a stay at home mom. The 5 year old has to attend a creche and they have a maid. How is that for living 'under the breadline'. Also, if I am such a horrible mother, why am I the godmother to the two boys?

Any lawyers out there care to comment??